WHAT

Marriage is a bonding union that transforms two into one spiritually, and emotionally. Marriage has so many ups and downs which is why marriage vows include the ‘for better or for worse’ phrase. This makes it clear that no matter how rough the road turns, you need to be prepared to stick with your man or woman.

The rate at which divorces are happening is too much. This has left so many homes broken and this is why you need to be very cautious how you go about the process of trying to make your marriage work. You shouldn’t live your life in haste thinking your marriage must work no matter what. You should relax and understand the companionship, love, and togetherness that being married represents.
When you do, things will flow perfectly without you having to work so hard.

WHO

Many people get married feeling they are fortunate to be married not because they value their partners. This is wrong. No matter who you are, you can get married if you want to. There are no special preparations needed for you to make your marriage work. All you need is to know you are worth being married and that you also deserve to have a happy married life. This is one motivation that surpasses anything.

The people you see having the best marriages started from a point where they felt they weren’t good enough to be married or to have life partners, however the right state of mind and the willingness to move on always makes a difference. So, you are the ideal person to be married today and no one else. Believe that and you will have a lot of fun making the best out of your life.

WHEN

Some people have hysterical beliefs and belief so many wrong things all at once. It is funny that with technology taking over our world today, there are people who still believe in getting married within a calendar or time to make sure their marriages work. Although this might have worked or might work in the Website of others, it shouldn’t be the sole purpose or center of your marriage.

Try to stay positive with everything that happens in your life and believe no matter the time, date and season you get married your marriage will work just fine. When you get married doesn’t have anything to do with how your marriage turns out or if your marriage works out or not. You are the only one who can make the most out of your marriage.

WHERE

Do you know that some families have spiritual venues they consider make marriages in their families work? Well, if you have a family like that you will understand the ‘where’ question where marriage is concerned. Most times the beliefs we have go a long way against us when we do not expect it. All you need is a very good venue that makes your wedding theme stand out. You do not need to have your wedding at a 5 star restaurant or venue to make it work out.

Marriage is a journey and the wedding ceremony is just the beginning of a long journey ahead. So, try your best to be positive in all ways. Just go with the flow and live a happy married life not thinking about yesterday and the venue of your marriage. You can even have your wedding at home and it will go perfectly for you no matter how small the marriage was. You are the master of your fate, so do not make wedding venue myths ruin your beautiful life of marriage with your partner.

WHOM

Most times the kind of person you get married to tells how well your marriage will go. However, since there is no perfect man or woman, making some compromises have become the order of the day. There are some compromises that need not to be made.

For instance, if you have an abusive boyfriend in every sense, try to help him get therapy before marriage so that you do not end up with issues in your marriage due to his abusive nature. Also, if your girlfriend tells you many lies, never think she will change when you marry her. Try to deal with that problem and make sure she has completely changed before you take her seriously in any way.

Another issue that affects marriages today and might prevent marriages from working is the title marriage issue. The title marriage issue mostly surrounds ‘whom you get married to’. Some men and women are so much into the titles and caliber of persons they get married to where career options are concerned.

You need to understand that, the character of the man or woman is what will make the marriage last or work, not their title. If you get married to the title and the title ends up failing, what else will you do? This is what you should take into consideration. So, marry a man or woman because of what they are and not who they are in their line of work, etc.